Getting a One Night Stand Going
A one night stand is a one night stand, usually lasting one night only, where there is at least an expectation that there will be no other sexual relationships between the participating sex partners. The term can be loosely defined as “unconscious sexual activity in which the participants are not emotionally involved or harboring any sexual intention.” Many people have had one night stands that progressed into long term relationships with the accompanying monogamy feelings.
Traditionally, one night stands are viewed as occurring when a young man has just come of age and is in search of sexual adventures. More recently this attitude has been widely accepted, and one night stands are now not necessarily seen as being less valid than longer term relationships. While many people will agree that having just one sex partner is usually harmless, there are still those who consider it wrong to sleep with just anybody. That’s why one night stands are so controversial.
What is clear is that one night stands have gained in popularity over the years. As the younger generation enters their senior years, they are more open to casual sexual relationships. There’s nothing wrong with that, except that many college students have one night stands during the early years of their relationship. This is not a problem. It’s simply more fun.
Some one night stands develop into long term relationships. The participants in these relationships feel that a physical relationship is not important enough. They want to explore the other person and fall in love. These relationships often end up lasting several years.
The reasons that people have one night stands vary. They range from the simple to the complex. Sometimes it is a physical need that can’t be satisfied by normal dating relationships. At other times the participants are bored. For whatever reason, there are people who want to experience something new. At any rate, one night stands are here to stay.
If you are interested in one night stands, you may be worried that you’ll have to give up on your date. Not so! You will likely find that you don’t have to give up at all. You may find that you have an immediate and satisfying connection.
If you decide that you like someone enough to want to get serious, the one night stand might lead to a more permanent relationship. It is important, though, to realize that one night stands are not a good idea for everyone. If you are uncomfortable with casual sex, you should probably wait. If you are looking for a short term fling, then a one night stand might not be for you. If you are looking for a serious relationship, then a one night stand could work well.
So, if you are thinking about one night stands, think long and hard. Just be honest with yourself. If you can admit that you aren’t ready for the commitment that comes with a one night stand, then don’t do it. There are plenty of great women out there who are only interested in one night stands.
But if you really are ready to make this happen, try asking your best friend or a close friend of yours if she would be OK with a one night stand. You never know, you may be able to convince her to get serious with you and maybe even date you. Once you have your best friend on board, you can get down to business. Here are some ideas for the perfect one-night stand.
If you have dated several people and none of them has been totally into you, then you are a great candidate for a one night stand. This is your chance to shine. If you’ve had a few flings but they just aren’t right, then you should give one of these a shot. Women appreciate a man who is confident enough to try new things. Try something out of the ordinary and see if she is willing to go along with it. If she is, then you can be sure that a one night stand with her is going to work out for the both of you.
If you have been out with several women and none of them has made you think any better of them, then you are in luck. You should definitely give one of these a shot. The best way to get a one night stand going is to surprise her. Don’t ask her out to a fancy dinner; instead, go out to a movie or to a cupcake shop and celebrate your anniversary. Whatever you do, don’t ask her out for a night at the bars.
If you have always been open about your flings and have been able to keep your girlfriend happy, then a one night stand with her may just be what you need to get things moving in a new direction. Not only will it help you bond together, but it will also show her how much you love and care for her. She may even begin to date you more often as a result. It’s time for you and her to take a relationship to the next level!